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8 benefits of masturbation

Survey shows that 95% of men and around 72% of women have masturbated in their life. That’s a lot of self-pleasure!

Touching yourself for pleasure isn’t just for single people, people in relationships masturbate too!

So, what is masturbation?

During puberty, your body starts to produce more sex hormones. One of the results of this is increased interest and curiosity about sex and sexuality.

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Sometimes young people will experience sexual pleasure and relieve stress and sexual tension by touching their genitals. This is called masturbation. It’s widespread for boys and girls.

It’s normal if you do it, and normal if you don’t. If you do, remember to always do it in private.

There are many myths about masturbation. Despite what you may have heard, masturbation won’t:

  • Hurt your body physically
  • Make you run out of sperm
  • Impact your ability to get or keep an erection
  • Make your penis break off
  • Make hair grow hair on your palms
  • Make you go crazy
  • Leave you blind

What are the benefits of masturbation?

Here are some benefits of masturbation

  • Masturbation can lower your stress and help you relax.
  • Masturbation can help you get good or better sleep which is important for your mental health.
  • You cannot get sexually transmitted infections from masturbating.
  • You cannot get pregnant from masturbating
  • Masturbation can help ease period cramps
  • Masturbation helps you better understand your body
  • Masturbation can also help with boosting your moods
  • Masturbation gives you pleasure

If you masturbate quite frequently to the point that it is impacting your normal daily routine, this is not normal. You should either stop or try to reduce the frequency.  

Generally, masturbation, if done a few times a day, does not present a problem and is a physically safe way to express sexual feelings. Masturbation is a safe and healthy activity. 

So, put on some music, light those candles, and enjoy yourself!

6 safe sex practices you should consider as an Escort

Safe sex can be defined as any sexual act that involves the use of methods that can help reduce the transmission of STIs, including HIV.

Different people including escorts define sex in different ways. To some it could be the act of penetration while to others it could be other sexual activities.

First, let’s explore acts that count as sex

This list is not exhaustive! What other sexual acts do you know of?

Most sexual activities carry the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection, including HIV as well as an unplanned pregnancy. Others like cuddling are totally safe. 

Some safe sex methods can involve the exchange of semen, vaginal fluids, or blood between partners while others do not. 

Keeping those risks in mind, there are some things you can do to reduce risk:

  1. Use of a condom​​​​​I bet a condom is the first thing that pops in mind when you think about safe sex. They are super easy to get and quite affordable sometimes free. In addition to being a form of birth control, they are also very effective for protection against STIs when having anal or vaginal sex as well as oral sex.
  2. Use of dental dams/ plastic wraps​​​​​​It is very possible to contract an STI through the bodily fluid exchange during oral sex therefore it is important to practice safe oral sex. Dental dams or plastic wraps are ideal for this.  Though not common or sometimes misunderstood they are a big part of safe sex practice.
  3. Cleaning sex toys​​​​Whether you have a sexual partner or not, the use of sex toys is a common trend and if not properly cleaned or if shared they can cause STIs.  To clean sex toys, one first needs to establish what the sex is made of to determine the best way to clean them.  A bonus safe sex practice… do not share sex toys.
  4. Having one sexual partner or abstinenceAbstinence is considered to be one of the most effective safe sex practices. In most cases, this may not be practical but maybe one can narrow it down to having one sexual partner. This along with regular check-ups and communication with the said sexual partner minimizes the risk of STIs.
  5. Regular screening​​​​Regular testing ensures that you are aware of your partner(s) status. Ensure that you are free of STIs and get treated if one of you is found to have an STI. Avoid any sexual activity that may put you at risk of catching an STI until the infected partner is no longer infectious.
  6. Don’t engage in sex while intoxicated​​​​Drugs and alcohol have been known to influence bad decision-making. Avoid having sex while under the influence of any substance that may affect your ability to think properly.

Bonus:

Consent! Sex has to be consensual. Both or all parties involved should consent to participate in all sexual activities proposed.

What is your definition of safe sex and do you practice it? Talk to us in the comments section.

Can I take an e-pill before sex as an escort to avoid pregnancy?

The emergency contraceptive pill is meant to be taken within 5 days after unprotected sex. Yet, Naomi wonders whether it is okay to take the pill before sex. Is it okay?

No, it is not recommended.

The pill is designed to be taken within 5 days AFTER having unprotected sex as an escort or any female, and the manufacturers don’t recommend taking the pill before sex.

Also, if you take it beforehand, you might as well choose a better contraceptive option, like a condom.

The progestogen-only pill stops ovulation while also releasing a hormone that makes it harder for sperm to travel up toward the egg. You get either two doses of 0.75mg each that you have to take 12 hours apart or as a single dose.

The longer you wait before taking e-pills, the less effective they are. They are most effective if taken within 120 hours (5 days) after unprotected sex. If taken later than that your chances of getting pregnant are higher.

Progestogen-only pills work less well for women who are overweight. If you have a body mass index (BMI) higher than 35 then it is suggested to use the Copper IUD as emergency contraception.

Don’t know your BMI? Use a calculator to figure it out!

Progestogen-only pills can even be used several times in one cycle if needed, though they should not be used as a normal form of birth control. For more regular forms of birth control check out our section on birth control methods.

Remember: you can always get the emergency contraceptive pill in advance of having unprotected sex if you are concerned that your current contraceptive method may fail.

Where to get The best massage in Nairobi parlours plus happy ending in Massage Nairobi

Nairobiraha has been a hidden gem in the mongering world for years, but it seems that many guys have really been catching on as of late. Anyone visiting this city will quickly realize the abundance of choices you have with girls, whether you’re paying or not.

The nightlife and girls’ scene in Nairobiraha has been going strong for a long time, which is certainly a good thing – it’s not hard at all to have a good time here.

All that to say, there are working girls all over the place, and one of those places are the massage parlors. Like most countries, it can be a little hard to find listings online, but once you’re here on the ground, you’ll have no trouble bumping into more than a few.

Still, there are a number of massage parlors in Nairobi you can be aware of before arriving in the city, as well as how the process tends to go here in the first place.

So with that said, here is a quick guide to happy-ending massages in Nairobi, including some helpful background information to be aware of before you touch down.

Nairobi Happy Ending Massage

What to Know Beforehand

In Nairobi, the massage scene is kind of all over the place. You’ve got the more traditional spots that are fairly blatant about what they offer, massage parlors that are basically brothels, the massage spots that offer real massages with some extra services on the side, and then a whole bunch of escorts that can come to where you are.

You can always explore places on foot, popping in and out of massage spots in areas of town like Westlands, and of course the city center. Massage shops that have any kind of red lighting almost always offer some extra services.

If you’re in a particular spot and unsure about whether or not they offer happy endings and more (sex), the usual rules are in effect. The masseuse will usually give you some signals towards the end of the massage, and of course, you can always give a few of your own.

Pink Apples

Pink Apples Nuru Massage is easily one of the most well-known places in the city, and also one of the most full-service locations as well. You get the full treatment at this place. When you visit, the process usually begins with being taken to a VIP area where girls will come in one by one and basically audition for you. You’ll inform the manager who you’ve chosen, and then be allowed to take a shower in preparation.

Once you’re all cleaned up, the girl will come in and perform whatever massage you’ve chosen, followed by whatever services you’ve agreed to. You’ll then take another shower after, and usually be joined by the girl. Not bad, huh? A full session will usually cost about KSh 8,000. Pink Apples offers a lot of other services too, including outcalls, and even bachelor party stuff.

  • Location: Lavington, Amboseli Lane

Elites Beauty Massage SPA

Elites Beauty SPA sometimes goes by Chaka Place Divas, so if you’re asking around about it, be sure to use both names just in case. You can always just check out their website as well, which is basically a giant escort service with a ton of different women and body types.

Kilimani Massage does have a physical location, but you’ll never know which girls are working when you go in. Still, the selection is always good, and sometimes it’s just nice to go somewhere else for something like this, do your thing, and be able to head back to where you’re staying afterwards.

It’s hard to put a gauge on the price (between KSh 6,000 and 10,000), as it all depends on the girl, and will cost more if it’s an outcall. You’re still getting great service for a relatively low price however, so no worries there. This place is full service in every way, and the actual location is secure with a lot of parking.

  • Location: Diani Close off Ole Dume Road, Kilimani Nairobi

Nairobi Raha Massage ladies

Nairobi Raha is more or less an escort service, with a very nice selection of girls ranging from native Africans, to other girls from around the world. Most of their services are outcalls, but a few girls do have locations you can go to instead. You won’t know until you ask one though.

The site is pretty simple, just scroll around, find a girl you like, and then message her. If you’ve looked at other Nairobi sites, you might recognize a few girls on here too, as they advertise on multiple sites.

Massage Spa Hurlingham

Hurlingham is one of the most popular happy-ending massage salons in the city. They are one of those places that actually perform a decent massage before any sexual services, so if you are looking for some relaxation before sex, this is a good spot to go visit.

  • Location: Marcus Garvey Rd

Escorts in Nairobi Raha

If you’re having trouble finding a good happy-ending massage in Nairobi, or you’re just really intent on getting a massage from a working girl before sex, you can always go with the many different escort services that are available in the city.

This is always great if you’re hanging out at you’re hotel, and really don’t feel like getting out or anything. Just look up an escort, let her know that you want a massage as part of the service, and you’ll usually be able to negotiate a good price for it. Some girls will offer different types of massages, such as the body-to-body oil massage. You should go for that if she does, trust me.

Some good places to start:

Conclusion

As you can probably see, “special” massages in Nairobi Raha are like most other mongering-friendly cities. You might need to do a little due diligence before coming, but you can always scope things out for yourself. Just remember to be safe, nice and have a good attitude, and you’ll always find a few worthwhile spots that you can depend on for a great time.

Whether you’re only stopping in for a visit or two, or want to take full advantage of all that Nairobi has to offer in regards to sex massages, you’ll quickly learn the ins and outs of how it goes here, and feel fully confident each time, all while having some awesome experiences.

Kiambu Road Massage SPA

5 Places to Meet Sexy Girls in Mombasa and Kenyan Escorts

Sexy girls in Nairobi City and Nairobi Escorts may be the main attraction for most visiting Kenya, it’s far from being the only spot in the country to meet girls and still be able to kick back and enjoy your stay. I love the capital city, but I also love the coast and all the things that come with it – which is why you should also have Mombasa on your list of potential places to visit when you’re in the country.

This town is nearly as big as Nairobi, has some great scenery, and is also within close proximity to some other interesting areas and suburbs that have a lot to offer as well. Located in the southeast region of Kenya, Mombasa is the second biggest city in Kenya and is pretty much the tourism hub of the country due to its location and proximity to everything from deep sea fishing to safari tours. This actually works in its favor, resulting in great nightlife, lots of accommodations, and of course, lots of girls, working and non-working.

The combination of the getaway feel and the abundance of Kenyan girls and their refreshingly positive demeanor makes Mombasa yet another underrated destination for those seeking some sexy company with hot African girls. While it’s a hidden gem to many for now, I don’t anticipate it staying that way for much longer, as the city is making a full-fledged effort to further develop infrastructure, more entertainment options, and all that stuff. Anyway, all that to say, there are a ton of places to meet girls for sex here, whether you’re trying to pay for it or not.

What to Know Beforehand

Mombasa isn’t as cosmopolitan as Nairobi and doesn’t have as large of an expat population, but it’s still right behind the capital city in both categories. It’s a little intense at times, but that’s just how things are, and the coastal vibe has that typical charm that sort of offsets all that anyway. So yeah, expect the same laid-back and friendly atmosphere as the rest of Kenya. As with any city, there are some crime concerns, but those are mostly on the outskirts in areas where you wouldn’t need to be for any reason. Things aren’t as working girl friendly as they are in other countries, but only in regards to actual establishments like brothels and such. They are around, but they really aren’t advertised, and the government has been trying to crack down a little on these places lately, albeit in a half-assed way. So, bars and clubs are going to be your best bets for hooking up with girls in Mombasa’s nightlife. There are lots of escort services around as well and lots of conveniently-placed happy ending massage spots around the beach areas.

Culture

Kenya is a laid-back country in general, so it’s no surprise that it’s even more true along the coast in Mombasa. The native folks are friendly and helpful, and there are just enough tourists and expats to keep things light-hearted as well. There’s a lot to do here, and things are fairly busy.

Sexy Girls

As far as girls go, it’s not hard to meet them, whether that’s at a bar, walking along the beach, at a club, or simply on a dating site. Prepare to be approached quite a bit when you’re out, especially at night. Even if you manage to get a girl back to your place without paying for the sex, you’re usually going to have to pay something after the deed is done, whether that’s some cab money, a gift or two, or just whatever cash the girl needs to whatever. That’s just how it goes. So, with that said, bring along some cheap gifts like lingerie, sundresses, perfume, cheap jewelry, etc., just like you would in many Latin countries. Despite this little caveat, you’ll find Mombasa girls to be very chill and drama-free for the most part, which is a welcome change from a lot of other countries. Respect the hustle. Still, whatever you do, don’t settle for the first girl to approach you, as Mombasa girls are aggressive in their “self-marketing”. Hold out a little and see what else there is to offer.

Areas

Mombasa is kind of an odd place in the sense that all the surrounding suburbs and communities are basically considered Mombasa, despite not technically being Mombasa. Areas like Bamburi Beach, Nyali, Shanzu, and most definitely Mtwapa are all basically Mombasa, each with some different things to offer. In regards to Mombasa nightlife, the Old Town is one of the better areas to stay at, along with any resort/casino areas along the coast. These have plenty of dining and nightlife options, which means they’ll be packed with lots of girls each night looking for guys as clients (or new boyfriends). You can definitely stay in the main part of Mombasa and have a great trip, but if you want more options for girls and experiences, you should be willing to make the 10-15 minute trips to the surrounding areas and beaches. It’s well worth it, and there are lots of places to stay.

Mombasa Girls in Bars / Clubs

Girls in Mombasa BarThis is where you’ll want to be spending most of your time. Bars and clubs in Mombasa are where everyone congregates to have a good time and kick back, and consequently, that’s where all the girls hang out looking for prospective guys to hook up with, be it pro, semi-pro, and non-pro. Since this a resort-ish town, the bars and clubs are often pretty full, with a good mix of visitors and locals. As I’ve said earlier, be prepared to be approached a lot by some confident girls, and expect to buy plenty of drinks. Hang out and take your time, and gauge the situation. Also, when talking about transactions with hookers, the art of bargaining is to your advantage. You can usually talk them down to about half the price or less of what they originally offered you (about KSh 2,000-3,000). If you’re staying in town, the Old Town has some popular bars that are always hopping. Lounge Bar and Florida Nightclub are two excellent spots to check out and have a great time in the process. If you’re venturing up north, Cheers is full of hot and “open-minded” Mombasa girls among the tourists and expats, especially after midnight. Big Tree is a good place to go to during the day, sunset, and early evening. Casablanca Club is the best and most popular nightclub in Mombasa, with plenty of sexy ladies every single night.

Mombasa Girls in Brothels / Strip Clubs

Mombasa is not the best place to find strip clubs or brothels for the most part. If there are any brothels, they’ll likely be word of mouth only, so you’ll need to make a few male friends and ask around so you can find them. Even then, they probably aren’t the most recommended thing there. Strips clubs used to be prevalent across the area, with some pretty good spots to visit. However, the local government is being pressured by the county government to close all strip clubs in Mombasa. It remains to be seen if this will actually be followed up on, however. With that being said, Lollipop Entertainment in Mtwapa is a place you might want to check out.

Happy Ending Massages in Mombasa

Mombasa Happy Ending MassageJust like brothels in Mombasa, happy ending massages and erotic massages, in general, are going to be difficult to spot, as none of them explicitly advertise what they do. However, finding them on your own is not so hard. Many of the beach areas have massage huts set up, and although they can be a bit primitive (and hot due to lack of air conditioning), they are still fairly private, and you can almost always get more than just a massage. Take a walk along the beaches in Mombasa – Nyali or Bamburi Beach – and you’ll find plenty of girls offering you a “massage”, and often for a very low price.

Mombasa Escort Girls

Thankfully, despite the upheaval with strip clubs in Mombasa, there will always be escorts available. As always, this is generally the easiest way to simply get a girl for sex in and out of your room without the bullshit. And as always, you’ll end up paying more most of the time, especially when comparing it to the dating site (see below). A lot of the sites and services in town are neat and organized, so you can get all the firm pricing upfront, and pick from a variety of girls in the area. If you’re looking for some good places to start, go visit Nairobi Escorts, Nairobi Adults & Escorts, and Nairobi Raha Girls .

Mombasa Girls on the Dating Site

If you want to meet girls in Mombasa that are both super attractive and fun to hang out with, using a dating site is probably your best option. Seeking Arrangement is a hugely popular dating site both among expats in the country as well as tourists who want to meet up with nice local ladies. And what’s great about this site (apart from the thousands of sexy women online at any daytime) is that you can arrange your dates conveniently from at home, even before starting your trip, which means you don’t waste any time.

In Closing

Mombasa has it all. You’ve got the beach, not a lot of tourists, a laid-back vibe, and a wide array of hot African girls from Kenya and neighboring countries like Tanzania and Uganda. It’s very easy to have a great time here on all levels, and not spend a lot of money in the process. Plus, Mombasa is surrounded by smaller towns that offer just as much. If you’re looking for something different from Nairobi, or just want an awesome vacation in a less-traveled beach area with an ample supply of girls, Mombasa is where it’s at.

Nairobi Raha Girls & Nairobi Escorts

Guide to Brothels & Happy Ending Massage in Nairobi with Nairobi Escorts Ladies

Nairobi has been a hidden gem in the mongering world for years, but it seems that many guys have really been catching on as of late. Anyone visiting this city will quickly realize the abundance of choices you have with girls, whether you’re paying or not.

The nightlife and girls scene in Nairobi has been going strong for a long time, which is certainly a good thing – it’s not hard at all to have a good time here.

All that to say, there are working girls all over the place, and two of those places are the brothels and erotic massage parlors. Like most countries, it can be a little hard to find listings online, but once you’re here on the ground, you’ll have no trouble bumping into more than a few.

Still, there are a number of spots you can be aware of before arriving in the city, as well as how the process tends to go here in the first place.

So with that said, here is a quick guide to happy-ending massages in Nairobi, including some helpful background information to be aware of before you touch down.

What to Know Beforehand

In Nairobi, the massage scene is kind of all over the place. You’ve got the more traditional spots that are fairly blatant about what they offer, massage parlors that are basically brothels, bars and strip clubs that are basically brothels, the massage spots that offer real massages with some extra services on the side, and then a whole bunch of escorts that can come to where you are.

You can always explore places on foot, popping in and out of massage spots in areas of town like Westlands, and of course the city center. Massage shops that have any kind of red lighting almost always offer some extra services.

If you’re in a particular spot and unsure about whether or not they offer happy endings and more (sex), the usual rules are in effect. The masseuse will usually give you some signals towards the end of the massage, and of course you can always give a few of your own.

Brothels in Nairobi

Nairobi Brothel

Before I start listing the various erotic massage locations in Kenya’s capital, let’s start off with the brothels.

Sabina Joy Pub is the biggest and most famous brothel in Nairobi. It’s actually a big bar where you can sit down, order a beer and watch up to 100 hot black ladies all around you – each of them absolutely ready to escape with you to one of the private rooms in the back part of the bar for romance and sex.

Other brothels that work in a similar way are Ricoz Pub, Liddos, Gabeez and Club Bavon. It’s almost impossible to visit Nairobi as a single guy and not be tempted to visit at least one of these adult entertainment places during your stay, especially when you look at the prices:

You’ll only need to pay between around 800 and 1,500 KSh for sex with a girl in these establishments, plus about 500 KSh for the rental of the short time room. It’s all very much negotiable of course, so do order a drink first, take it all in and don’t rush too much – there’s so much choice, so much amazing choice.

Elite Beauty Spa

Elite Beauty Spa Nairobi

Elite Beauty Spa is easily one of the most well known places in the city, and also one of the most full service locations as well. You get the full treatment at this place. When you visit, the process usually begins with being taken to a VIP area where girls will come in one by one and basically audition for you. You’ll inform the manager who you’ve chosen, and then be allowed to take a shower in preparation.

Once you’re all cleaned up, the girl will come in and perform whatever massage you’ve chosen, followed by whatever services you’ve agreed to. You’ll then take another shower after, and usually be joined by the girl. Not bad, huh? A full session will usually cost about KSh 8,000. Elite Beauty Spa offers a lot of other services too, including outcalls, and even bachelor party stuff.

  • Location: Kabarnet Road off Ngong Road

Uptown Spa, Kilimani

Kilimani Massage sometimes goes by Chaka Place Divas, so if you’re asking around about it, be sure to use both names just in case. You can always just check out their website as well, which is basically a giant escort service with a ton of different women and body types.

Kilimani Massage does have a physical location, but you’ll never know which girls are working when you go in. Still, the selection is always good, and sometimes it’s just nice to go somewhere else for something like this, do your thing, and be able to head back to where you’re staying afterwards.

It’s hard to put a gauge on the price (between KSh 6,000 and 10,000), as it all depends on the girl, and will cost more if it’s an outcall. You’re still getting great service for a relatively low price however, so no worries there. This place is full service in every way, and the actual location is secure, clean and modern.

  • Location: Woodlands Road off Lenana Road

Nairobi Raha

Nairobi Raha is more or less an escort service, with a very nice selection of girls ranging from native Africans, to other girls from around the world. Most of their services are outcalls, but a few girls do have locations you can go to instead. You won’t know until you ask one though.

The site is pretty simple, just scroll around, find a girl you like, and then message her. If you’ve looked at other Nairobi sites, you might recognize a few girls on here too, as they advertise on multiple sites.

Massage Spa Hurlingham

Hurlingham is one of the most popular happy-ending massage salons in the city. They are one of those places that actually perform a decent massage before any sexual services, so if you are looking for some relaxation before sex, this is a good spot to go visit.

  • Location: Marcus Garvey Rd

Escorts in Nairobi

If you’re having trouble finding a good happy ending massage in Nairobi, or you’re just really intent on getting a massage from a working girl before sex, you can always go with the many different escort services that are available in the city.

This is always great if you’re hanging out at your hotel, and really don’t feel like getting out or anything. Just look up an escort, let her know that you want a massage as part of the service, and you’ll usually be able to negotiate a good price for it. Some girls will offer different types of massages, such as the body-to-body oil massage. You should go for that if she does, trust me.

Some good places to start:

Conclusion

As you can probably see, “special” massages in Nairobi are like most other mongering-friendly cities. You might need to do a little due diligence before coming, but you can always scope things out for yourself. Just remember to be safe, nice, and have a good attitude, and you’ll always find a few worthwhile spots that you can depend on for a great time.

Whether you’re only stopping in for a visit or two, or want to take full advantage of all that Nairobi has to offer in regard to sex & massage plus extras and brothels, you’ll quickly learn the ins and outs of how it goes here, and feel fully confident each time, all while having some awesome experiences.

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